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By: Anon
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Threesomes

I’ve talked to my boyfriend about threesomes and we both want to try it. I want some perspectives and advice on how to actually get somebody on board for a threesome and also any advice about it in general.
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By: 1701205539-158murderonthedancefloor
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am i supposed to like period sex?

i just saw a movie (don’t want to spoil it if anyone hasn’t seen it) where a girl gets head while she’s on her period and it was sexy and shocking and disturbing and i can’t stop thinking about it

a couple of my friends have sex on their period all the time, but i’ve just never been comfortable with that and i seriously can’t imagine letting someone give me head while on my period

is that an insecurity thing>? is it a me problem? and does anyone do period head often? lmk

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By: helloitsfred
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is it weird to buy my situationship a personal massager for her birthday?

Been hooking up with this girl for over a year now. We’re super compatible and have a great time in bed but for whatever reason we’ve agreed we shouldn’t date. That being said, her birthday is coming up and I want to buy her present and was thinking a toy would be fun. 🍑🍆.  i want her to use it obviously, but i would also love to use it together.

I’m looking for advice/thoughts on if you think buying her a *personal massager* is a good idea or not. All answers are welcome!!

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By: 1701903491-169dashiscare
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Need to pick the perfect movie for my netflix n’ chill moment

Hey,

Taking a chance with this girl I’ve known for a while and inviting her over to watch a movie tomorrow night. What’s a good movie to put on that will maybe strike some conversation, get us a little closer to each other, and set the mood for our first kiss?

If the movie is bad that will make me look bad and presumptuous. If the movie is too good maybe I won’t be able to make my move.

 

If anyone has any good date night movie recs, lmk. Thanks

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By: ff33ad64f9ab6d94bbd8cb2971fb7a24-93x93ifeelitcumming
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what do i do if his dick is ….literally too big for me

just started hooking up with this guy i met on hinge, and hes so so cute and we get along so well i really like spending time with him. we had sex for the first time a couple weekends ago and holy shit i just literally couldn’t fit him!!! it was kind of a disaster! that’s never happened before. we managed to do other stuff and that was fine (i’m super attracted to him) but we tried again last time we hung out and it just was not happening

do i have to end things with him?? is there a way to make this work? fuck my life dude

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By: 1701900683-167imaginaryspending
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my best friend turned down my brother…who should i be loyal to?

our family’s childhood friend recently moved to where we live and now she spends a lot of time with me and my family. my brother started to have feelings for her earlier this year, and i felt like she was giving him flirty energy back so i thought maybe they felt the same way about each other? her and i have had multiple conversations about it where i’ve said like, he likes you so if you don’t feel the same way please don’t lead him on. long story short, she lead him on. he told her how he felt and she said she didn’t feel the same way. he was crushed, but for some reason she kept wanting to spend time with him..movie nights, sleepovers, cuddling….i just feel like that’s slightly insane? it’s messing with his head, and i feel like i’m in the middle of it because even though she’s my friend i feel a responsibility to look out for my brother. should i stay out of it or talk to her about it?

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By: 1701901756-168savinggrease
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help me craft the perfect hinge profile

any advice on making a hinge profile that doesnt make u come across as a douche, a loser, or a try-hard? ladies i feel like if uve been on a dating app you know what i mean. i feel like theres no good way to make a good impression

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By: lilbopeep
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am i trans or just really gay?

I’m 15, already out of the closet, and love everything femme. drag, makeup, womens clothes, performing..i feel more connected to women but idk what that means for me/my gender identity

any trans bbs out there who can give me advice or tell me how u knew your were trans? <3

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By: 1701214153-162finebabyfine
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do guys care if a girl is taller than them?

been trying to get with this guy who is probably my height or a little bit shorter..and i feel like he’s into me but doesn’t want to make a move because i’m taller than him? he seems pretty confident but i was wearing heels the last time i saw him and he didn’t talk to me at all hahaha

do guys care about girls heights? am i not destined for a short king </3

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By: 1701212992-161orlandoflor
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birth control recommendations?

Just starting hooking up with people and feel like I’ll probably lose my virginity soon. I want to go on birth control cause I don’t want to worry about relying on condoms, but so many of my friends have had nightmare experiences with their bc choices. My main concern is weight gain and acne…has anybody found something they like?

she/they pronouns thx! xoxo

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By: 1701209984-160michaelceraboyfriend
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seeing my hs crush for the first time since coming out

went home for thanksgiving and decided to do the bar night on wednesday cause i was feeling like seeing highschool frenemies and stirring up some tea for entertainment. little did i know i was about to run into the boy that ruined my life in 10th grade!!!!! and by ruined my life i mean i was hopelessly in love with him and pretending to be straight

we saw each other and caught up…we weren’t close in hs but always friendly, and we had so much fun talking and laughing all night..i felt like there was chemistry but it could be wishful thinking?? do I ask him to hang over christmas and mAKE MY MOVE?…..i’m scared

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By: 1701207348-159egirl400
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i hate my brothers girlfriend

my little brother (19) just got his first real girlfriend. he met her at the gym and they started dating pretty quickly, and now things are moving wayyy too fast

they go to different colleges so on weekends and breaks she spends basically all her time at my parents house and like fully making herself at home like she owns the place!!! she acts super entitled, isn’t warm to me or my parents, and shes lowkey mean to my brother! she tries to control what he eats, posts on instagram, everything

maybe i just need to vent but i’m so tempted to either go off on her next time she mouths off or just beg my brother to breakup with her asap

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By: 1690841415-122tony
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is there a chill way to ask a girl if she’s down for butt stuff

what is the best way to bring it up without sounding like a complete douche?

been hooking up with this girl for a while and i’ve never tried anal but i feel like she might be down.. is that something i have to do with a girlfriend first?

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By: sprinkles
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Shave, wax, laser or let it grow?

I know it’s different for everyone but just curious what y’all prefer?

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By: shortnsweet
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what to do when you go down on a guy and he doesn’t return the favor

what do you say or do when this happens? asking for a friend

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By: chocolatelover
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i wanna try new sex positions but i only like being on top

HELP! i only get orgasms when I’m on top.

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By: 1690838486-120sweetsweetfantasybaby
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i cried after losing my virginity and i’m not really sure why

I finally lost my virginity….i’m really glad i waited until I was ready, at this point I don’t have any regrets and I felt really comfortable with him the whole time

I think I was worried about it hurting and bleeding and whatnot, but it was actually pretty comfortable. We used a condom and he pulled out when he came just to be safe. After we finished for some reason I just felt super overwhelmed with emotion and kind of just started weeping?

I don’t think it had to do with regret or sadness or fear…maybe it was just a rush of hormones? Is this what it’s like for women in general? When you have sex with someone your body just attaches and you just get super emo?

Has anyone experienced this, and is it normal for it to happen after losing your virginity?

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By: IMG_8241-93x93PaleBooty
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Finally did it but confused

This guy and I have known eachother for over a decade. We’ve always had a lot of sexual tension but never acted out on it. Last night we FINALLY hung out to have sex and it only lasted 5 minutes. We took a break and talked a bit and then tried again but he was unable to get hard. We ended up calling it a night (after hanging and talking a bit more, all good vibes despite the weird quickie) and now I’m left wondering was he just anticipating having sex with me THAT much that he was one and done? Or was he disappointed with ME?

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By: af26da302927ae713f63222f1e0d7369-93x93lizissocool
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Someone tell me to tell my ex I have a boyfriend to see if he gets jealous LOL

I know this is so toxic……but I’ve been hearing from my ex recently and last night he asked me if I was seeing someone

Am I crazy for wanting to tell him I have a bf now just to see his reaction??

If you have any other fun little mind tricks I can try on my ex i’ll take the suggestions hehe 🙂

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By: 1690837850-119g000berpeas
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i just hooked up with my tinder date in the park while the sun was out

feeling crazyyyyy and amazing and now I fear I may be into having sex in public!!! we didn’t fully fully have sex but we were making out and he gave me a handjob under a picnic blanket

apart from being afraid i could get arrested it was insanely hot…. i keep having dreams where i pull him into the corner of the club, sneak away to the bathroom at a swanky restaurant, find a bedroom at a house party

if you’ve had sex in a crazy place i want to hear about it so i can live vicariously through you and also get ideas for myself

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By: download-93x93babysquirrel99
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how do i tell my gf i want her to try anal w me

i lost my virginity to a dude and even though i’m verrrrrrry gay i can’t lie i miss being p*n*trated LMFAO

i don’t think she’s ever used a strap on or tried ass play and we’re kind of young so i don’t want to scare her with the intensity of the ask

also i’ve never been fucked in the ass so if anyone has any tips on THAT please let me know xoxoxo

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By: Polish_20230819_115311507-93x93Lotus🪷
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Does using a vibe & toys in general desensitization your lady downstairs?

<p style=”text-align: left;”>Soooo… I’ve talked with my mom about getting the mile high. She said yes I could and now that I’m wanting to get it a lil earlier then I was planning she is saying why dont you try a bullet first..</p>
Because it’s cheaper and it’s something more smaller. And she doesnt want me to desensitize my lady downstairs before I even become sexual active with people.. And if what if I don’t like it.. I didn’t tell her I’ve used a vibrating toothbrush before and I liked it a bit..

I’m gonna listen to her and get bullet first.. I’m bumped.. I really want to get the mile high first.. But she’s not budging on letting me…

But I really want to know about the desensitizing thing… Does it actually happen?

Thank you in advance!! 💞

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By: sprinkles
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Birth Control

I’ve been on birth control for the last 15 years. I always wonder if it is actually bad for me or what it is doing to my body. I’ve read that it changes your hormones and stories about people falling out of love after getting off of it. Thoughts?

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By: shortnsweet
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thoughts on sleeping with someone who is married?

been talking to someone who ive known since childhood. weve always had a crush on each other and have hooked up in the past. hes now married but has recently reached out trying to hook up saying him and his wife have discussed being “open” and that she wouldnt care if he slept with someone else. i feel like its wrong but at the same time i kind of want to… is it ever ok to sleep with a married man? what are everyones thoughts on this?

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By: Big doggy dog
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Your best-friend is dating someone you cant stand

You know that their partner is not good for them, and you also cant stand their partner.

What do you do? Do you tell your best friend the truth?

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By: sprinkles
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Movies that turn you on!!!

Let me know 🙂

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By: Big doggy dog
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I have a curved Penis

Some women like it and some dont. Any advice for my J dick?

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By: Big doggy dog
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Is using a penis pump normal?

Has anyone used one?

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By: Daisy Bloom
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Thirty Flirty and Thriving

I am about to turn 30 and about to be married. I can’t believe that I am at this chapter in my life. I just feel somewhat like a childbride.. lol.

Any advise for someone who wants to keep the youth alive whilst also adulting?

 

 

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By: 64416489f0c94e26250d29f18a6f3646-93x93benjerry77
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does dick size matter? asking for a friend

my buddy and I want to settle a bet. I deadass have a small member and I’ve never gotten any complaints. It’s how you use it!!! It’s not about the size of the boat, it’s about the motion of the ocean. I’ve heard mixed opinions from girl friends of mine…are they just telling us what we wanna hear? Ladies, what do you say? Give it to me straight

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By: bobby ob
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where is the g spot?????

please help me

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By: swampb00ty
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describe losing your virginity in 3 words.

mine: first and last

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By: bobby ob
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pulled my groin while losing my virginity…

is it weird to ask for some medical bill compensation…?

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By: 1690838486-120sweetsweetfantasybaby
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in desperate need of blowjob advice

i;m 17 and am just becoming sexually active..i’m kind of a late bloomer, a lot of my friends started giving head and hooking up like freshman year, so i feel kind of embarrassed asking them advice about this kind of stuff

i’ve gone down on my bf a couple of times and like it gets the job done but i feel like i could be a lot better so help me please lol thx

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By: chocolatelover
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i saw two girls making out and got horny

I’m married to a man and i got horny after watching two girls make out. We had amazing sex after. Should we watch lesbian porn together or is that doing the most? Relatable?

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By: 3fda8cda12e60979e5b28c64d29523fa-1-93x93trianbaylor
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is it weird to buy my situationship a vibrator for her birthday?

Been hooking up with this girl for over a year now. We’re super compatible, have great sex, shes hot as fuck etc. but for whatever reason we’ve agreed we shouldnt date. that being said, her birthday is coming up. for my birthday she gave me a tshirt of our shared favorite band and a coupon for anal. i feel like i have to follow that up with something pretty good.

you tell me, is it insane that i want to buy her a vibrator? i want her to use it obviously, but i would also love to use it together. is there a way to make that not weird? is a vibrator something that someone should pick out for themselves anyway?

looking for advice, thoughts, and vibrator recs if you have any. many thanks

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By: download-93x93babysquirrel99
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my girlfriend wants to open up our relationship……help

me (25f) and my girlfriend (28f) have been dating for just about 2 years, and up until now i thought we were on the same page when it came to monogamy/polyamory

but last night in bed she asked me if i ever thought about bringing another girl home to fool around with us. since we were talking dirty i indulged the fantasy…but afterwards she was basically like “oh yeah i was serious about that and also btw i want to have sex with other girls WITHOUT you too”

????? i know i’m way too sensitive to be in an open relationship. i don’t want to lose her tho. does anyone have any success stories with being open? preferably between 2 femmes

 

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By: Polish_20230819_115311507-93x93Lotus🪷
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Idk if this guy actually romantically likes or just wants a hookup..

ive asked my friends about it, but they are in the same boat.. They have never had any romantic relationships at all, like myself. So I’m coming here. 💞

So I met this guy online through tiktok. I really like him. We moved to snap. We started fooling around. He asked to see me fully.. I am getting there with being more comfortable with myself ( I’m plus size), I was gonna do it but then I chickened out once I started to get ready. 🙈 So I told him. He wasn’t weird about it or anything. I really thought he would be and would block me on all socials, but he didn’t. I casually checked up on him. Got some short but sweet convos. We’ve fooled around a few more times. I did tell him that I ended up catching feelings for him and I’d loved to start getting to know each other and see where things go. I am not necessarily asking to start dating, I just wanna start fresh; talking like friends but having that 🥰😍 to it. He didn’t really say anything to that besides I don’t do relationships because I move a lot. Which I totally understand. I was and still am a little hurt by it. But I’m trying to think more positive about things, letting things happen more natural.

I just don’t know what to do. Because I am still sliding up flirty sexy replies on snap & checking in on him and commenting flirty too a bit.. He kinda said if he would have been in Missouri ( he moved back to his hometown ) when I went last weekend we could have met up..

What do you guys think I should do? Just be content on fooling around with him and such or… 🤷‍♀️
<p style=”text-align: right;”>I apologize for my scattetness, I’m so terrible with explaining things, lmao.</p>

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By: Polish_20230819_115311507-93x93Lotus🪷
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Buying my first spicy toy pt 2

Im Putting this in advice because that’s where I put my original questions, etc about it.

Anyways..

Update on asking my mom about getting the mile high vibe!!

She said I can!!!!!! Just be sure to make sure it’s hidden from my dad, because ya know he’ll freak out.. Since I’m still his little girl, even if I’m 21.

I’m gonna try to do it next week on payday.. But a lot of stuff is coming out of it.. If not I’m gonna do the check on the 8th.

I’m so excited!!! She was really mello about and everything. And I’m gonna ask my bonus mom if I can have it shipped to her house.. Because I don’t want risk of dad seeing it..

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By: franco
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flex disc and iud

does anyone know if you can use a flex disc (period device like a diva cup) when you have an iud? i am deathly terrified of dislodging my iud

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By: swampb00ty
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PERIOD? FLEX DISC.

<p style=”text-align: center;”>listen. buy a flex disc. or a flex cup. or whatever your heart and body desire. but wow. flex disc changed my life and my period. it’s easy & comfortable & sustainable & all my friends ask me if I’m being paid to advertise for them because I’m obsessed but I’m not…I’m just..obsessed. would luv a sponsorship tho. @flex on insta. just trust me</p>

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By: Screen-Shot-2023-04-05-at-11.37.07-AM-93x93aliewithfeast
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Does kissing friends mean you’re attracted to them?

Before dating my girlfriend (of 6.5 years) I found myself making excuses to kiss some of my girlfriends when I was drinking. I was definitely particular about which friends I wanted to kiss— but I noticed that the more I did it when I was drinking, the more I wanted to try it when I was sober. What do you think this means? Does it mean I was trying to explore my sexuality back in the day? Does it mean I actually was attracted to some of my friends? I have a friend who’s going through a similar situation later on in life (she’s now 30) and wanted to get advice for her. Thanks all! Xx

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By: bobby ob
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i think my friends are trying to trick me into doing a weird orgy app

peer pressure is so hard to overcome

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By: Screen-Shot-2023-04-03-at-6.16.49-PM-93x93alicebby444
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is it wrong to ask my partner to quit smoking for me?

just started officially dating my partner. they smoke like a pack a day. and as hot as they look while they smoke, i absolutely can’t stand the taste/smell. i dont want to come off as judgmental (even tho i am lol) but tasting nicotine on their breath everytime we kiss is a turnoff. not to mention the health risks!!! both of my parents smoked growing up so it honestly kind of triggers me. they know i don’t like it, but is it wrong of me to ask that they quit? i have their best interest at heart!! i see a real future with them but could see this getting in the way. help!!!!!

we both use they/them pronouns so please be respect that in your responses!!! thanks bbs

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By: Screen-Shot-2023-04-05-at-11.37.07-AM-93x93aliewithfeast
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How do you feel about 69’ing?

I just found out that today is National 69 Day (hence the date – 6/9) and it got me thinking about this highly under-talked about sex position.

I happen to be a girl dating a girl – so for me, 69’ing is a position my partner and I do very often. After talking to some of my friends (most of whom are heterosexual) I found out that almost all of them are not fans of this position. In fact, they specifically said they dislike doing it, mostly because it makes them feel insecure about the angle of their bodies.

My question is

1) Is it just me that finds 69 the maybe the hottest position ever?! Is it because I’m a girl dating a girl that I like it more?

2) How do you guys feeling about 69’ing? (and would you consider yourself to be hetero? gay? bi? queer? trans? etc.)

3) Would you consider 69’ing sex? I know this could be subjective, but I am super interested in ya’ll’s opinions.

Happy 69 Day 🙂

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By: Polish_20230819_115311507-93x93Lotus🪷
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Does it matter if I’m a virgin, if I have a spicy toy?

I completely forgot to put this in my post/ask about buying my first toy..

Does it matter if I’m still a virgin? Like will it affect me in any way?

Thank you in advance!! 💞

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By: af26da302927ae713f63222f1e0d7369-93x93lizissocool
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my boyfriend won’t go down on me. break up with him or get over it?

Been with my bf for 4 months. I give him head like literally everytime we hook up. He hasn’t ONCE tried going down on me yet, even tho I told him I liked getting head more than anything in bed. And I don’t come from ~*penetration*~ so all he can do to get me off is use his hands. He’s great at that but AITA for wanting a little bit of variety?? Do we think he’s scared, bad at it, or doesn’t like it? Or all of the above!!! He’s literally perfect in every other ways. Do i choose my heart over my pussy on this one?

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By: 1690838486-120sweetsweetfantasybaby
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is there a sexy way to tell your first boyfriend you’re a virgin?

i’ve been seeing my boyfriend for like two months..i know hes not a virgin, and ive been able to avoid sex since we started hooking up (we’re in hs so we dont get the opportunity very often), but its come close a couple times and im too scared to tell him i’m a virgin

how do i do it? in the moment? or do i have to sit him down in the light of day and talk through it?  that sounds so extra

i dont want to make it a huge deal but it lowkey is for me! send help pls

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By: 1690841415-122tony
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to ghost or not to ghost

ok help me settle a debate ive been having w some of my friends

if ive hung out w a girl a couple of times, and im not feeling it anymore..is it better to communicate that and let her know up front my reasonings, or just ghost?

ive gotten so mny mixed opinions..some of my friends are like u owe her an explanation, some of them are like nah id rather u just ghost, ill get the picture

what do yall think

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By: tumblr_l0gy2zzegI1qzncpdo1_640-93x93hibarbie
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i want recs for onlyfans creators who make….romantic content LOL

CAN YOU BLAME A GIRL FOR WANTING A BIT OF ROMANCE IN HER PORN???? lmfao

i want like, period dramas, black and white, tender, passionate, girl-driven porn that makes me FEEL SOMETHING. basically is hBOmax or netflix went all the way with their sex scenes..i usually feel so shameful when watching mainstream sites so tell me where to GO

any and all pairings welcome doesn’t necessarily have to be het xoxo

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By: 1690840170-121nayaboop
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how tf am i supposed to tell if a girl is flirting w me or just being a girl

ive known i was gay for a while now but now i’m finally ready to start BEING gay iykwim

when im out at the clubs sometimes i feel like im catching vibes from girls when they come dance with me but i honestly feel like that could just be another straight girl having fun

is there any specific lesbian move i can try to sus out the vibe lolll

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By: Screen-Shot-2023-04-03-at-4.12.03-PM-93x93valleyofthedollz
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I’m trans. Can’t tell anyone in my family, so I’m telling you guys.

I’m 19 years old, and currently passing as a cisgendered gay man. I came out to my conservative texan parents a couple years ago and our relationship barely survived THAT. They basically were like “we love you, just don’t bring any of that home so we can pretend its not happening”

Political beliefs aside I love my parents and I’m not financially able to be completely independent from them..

Last night my parents left for a skiing trip with their friends. I drank a bottle of my moms wine and went into her closet to play dress up. I’d wanted to do it for years and just always told myself it was the little gay boy in me wanting to try drag. But when I put on one of her dresses and some makeup i immediately started crying. It was like seeing myself for the first time. I used to play dress up when i was little until i was taught it wasn’t a masculine thing to do..i guess that’s why it took me so long to realize this.

i don’t know what i’m gonna do next, but I just wanted to put this here. maybe it’ll help someone. maybe it’ll help me. any trans kids out there wanna start a thread for all our secrets?

p.s: call me Caroline :’)

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By: af26da302927ae713f63222f1e0d7369-93x93lizissocool
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need recs for HOT, ETHICAL, FAT-POSITIVE porn

subject line is self explanatory. pornhub is gross so don’t even try with me!!! girls gays and theys, help me out here. where do y’all watch porn?

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By: download-93x93babysquirrel99
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my boyf’s wants me to lose my virginity

i’m 17 and haven’t lost my virginity yet. my new boyfriend isnt a virgin anymore and weve been dating a couple months. we’ve had several convos about how i’m not ready to have sex yet and he’s been understanding about it..but there have been a few times where we’re hooking up and he clearly wants it to escalate to sex and when it doesn’t, he’s visibly upset

he says he wants me to be able to trust him, and it makes him feel bad that i dont trust him enough yet to want to have sex

is this a red flag?

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is it possible to actually come across as normal on a dating app?
By: Screen-Shot-2023-04-03-at-4.03.38-PM-93x93eft1998
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is it possible to actually come across as normal on a dating app?

im 23, recently got back into the dating scene and i rly feel like apps are the only way to go

i just never know how to approach girls in public if we’re fully strangers..and i feel like most ppl my age use the apps and have good luck with them. i’ve been talking to girls i work with tho and they tell me that hinge is just littered with trash dudes who have awful profiles

is there a way to come across well on hinge without looking like a try hard? or should i just try to date the old fashioned way

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i just want to feel good about my body
By: af26da302927ae713f63222f1e0d7369-93x93lizissocool
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i just want to feel good about my body

like most women my relationship with my body is all over the place. i swear there are days when i feel like i’m doing pretty well on my health journey, mentally and physically, but then it just completely plummets. when i’m hooking up with someone i really try to just fake confidence because i feel like its a turn off when someone is so visibly insecure

but fuckkkkkk i just want to stop feeling like this

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By: Polish_20230819_115311507-93x93Lotus🪷
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Buying my first spicy toy

So I’ve been really wanting to buy myself a toy. Yes I loveeee old fashion plain ole masturbating… But I want the change up of having a toy.

I still live with my parents. None of us are in a rush for me to get out… I mainly got a job so I could help out with bills..

Heres the catch of this… We are staying in a hotel at the moment, have been since Christmas… A lot of stuff in the house is bad/broken down. We’ve let it go too much so during a big cold spell in December we decided to get a room.. Was just supposed to be until it got warm again… But we just decided to stay… It’s so much better then the house, wayyy better air system, lol.

How I have spicy time is.. After everyone is asleep I get all hyped up ( mainly listening to Quinn) and then I sneak to the bathroom and have spicy time. Mainly of have been just one orgasm. Because I don’t want to get caught.. Just don’t wanna deal with them saying stuff, lmao.. Yes we are open about sex and stuff, but I just don’t know show to approach it.. On a goood note, I’ve been being able to get two in.. Kind have gotten their sleeping patterns down, lmao

Anyways!!

I really want to get myself a toy! And I really want to get the mile high set, that FEAST just released. Looks so perfect for my first. 🥰

My parents don’t “watch’ my bank account, but occasionally we talk about what I have to pay for with my check.. And I just don’t know how they would handle me spending a lot on something..

I do have an amazing lady that I consider my second mom that I’m super open with about sex and anything spicy… So I can totally have her help me get it….

I wanted to come ask the amazing people of the forum what I should do. 💞🥰

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By: NovaL
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Chemistry

Is it possible for me not to think there’s any chemistry, but he does from the same moment? And if so, should I end it or does it sometimes take longer for one person to feel the chemistry?

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By: Screen-Shot-2023-04-05-at-11.37.07-AM-93x93aliewithfeast
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I love my best friend

what do I dooooo

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By: banla
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Sex

What is the right age to have sex? Many people have argued about this but I feel like a lot are too young or old. Idk. And what about kissing? I feel like people say many ages are too young to have a first kiss but I think it can happen early teens like 14 or older.

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By: Screen-Shot-2023-04-05-at-11.37.07-AM-93x93aliewithfeast
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Can Medication Decrease Your Sex Drive?

I just started a new medication a couple months ago and I have noticed a major decrease in my sex drive. I can tell my partner is getting sexually frustrated. I do want to make sure her needs are being met, but I just can’t get myself to want to have sex. I feel like it’s become a chore, and I actually get stressed about it every time I feel like she’s trying to make a move. Anybody else feel (or have felt) this way? What did you do about it? Advice plzzzz 🙂

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By: JP
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It hurts when I pee after I cum

Any advice to avoid this? So brutal

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By: Screen-Shot-2023-04-05-at-11.36.59-AM-93x93amandawithfeast
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Have you ever cried after cumming?

I’ve cried a few times after cumming, but only with one person I’ve dated. It’s not about the feeling of the orgasm, its more about the experience and the person I’m with. The connection feels so strong…it brings tears to my eyes. Every time it happens, I feel like I have to hide it or else he’ll get freaked tf out.

Is this normal? Or was dick too bomb?

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By: Screen-Shot-2023-04-05-at-11.37.07-AM-93x93aliewithfeast
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Is it weird that my favorite sex position is…

My ultimate favorite sex position is SCISSORING. Keep in mind, I am a woman dating a woman. Not sure if that goes without saying.

I want to know:

1. What is your favorite sex position? Love learning about new positions!

2. Is it weird that scissoring is my personal favorite position? Honest answers please, just want to know if I’m the only one. 🙃

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By: Daisy Bloom
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how to keep a long term relationship spicy?

Been in a almost 6 years relationship and finding it sometimes hard to get the energy to have sex. What should I do?

 

– Asking for a friend 😉

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By: Screen-Shot-2023-04-03-at-4.03.38-PM-93x93eft1998
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I (m23) had a threesome with my gf and her friend. now she’s devastated that I liked it.

Gf (25F) and I have been together for 3 years. We have explored plenty in our sex life, including MFM threesomes which were fun. In the past I was really curious about giving FMF a try but she wasn’t comfortable with that so we didn’t. But a couple months ago to my surprise, she actually brought it up on her own and said she wanted to try! She’s been coming into her queerness a bit, which I love and want to support her in. We went on some dating apps looking for a third cuz we agreed it’d be better if we didn’t know the other girl. 

My gf and I talked about it a bunch before hand and honestly it seemed like she was more excited than me about it! Long story short we have the threeway, and it was fucking amazing. I mean what more could I want? I was eating my gf out while another girl went down on me…..how am I not supposed to love that. The next morning my gf was noticeably upset and when I asked her about it she said it seemed like I was more into the second girl than her. I don’t know what to do with that.

How do I make her feel better about the whole thing? Is there any coming back from this? Safe to say we won’t be bringing anyone else in our bed anytime soon

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By: Screen-Shot-2023-04-03-at-3.20.36-PM-1-93x93drfusilli
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is it a red flag if a guy is 23 and has never been in a serious relationship?

on the one hand, i can respect someone who doesn’t fall into relationships just because they think it’s what theyre supposed to do..but should i be concerned that he has NEVER committed to anyone? has anyone on here ever successfully converted a non-relationship person?

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By: jimmy
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In love with my best friend (guy) but we’re both straight

The title pretty much says it all. Need advice. Never been with a guy before. I know my best friend hasn’t either. Helpppp please! 🙏

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By: JP
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I am in love with one of my friends who is much older but super dope

What do I do? She’s hot, sophisticated and clearly is attracted to me, but she thinks the age difference is too much and says we are better off as friends? …

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By: il_570xN.301408054-93x93Boogie323
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I want to come out to my parents and don’t know how to even go about it.

I have been struggling finding the right way to tell my parents. I feel like my mom won’t care as much as my dad. I think it will take him a while to accept it versus my mom would be more understanding.

Do you think I should tell my mom first and then see what she says….and if she is understanding maybe she can help me with my dad?

 

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By: Screen-Shot-2023-05-23-at-5.40.24-PM-93x93firstclassmail
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My friend always flirts with my girlfriend.

My one guy friend is always flirting with my girlfriend. My girlfriend doesn’t think so but I feel like he is. I don’t know if I’m just making stuff up in my head and being jealous for no reason or if there is something lowkey going on?

Has anyone been in this position before. HELP please.

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By: Amandavlad222
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i’m in love with my best friend and don’t know how to tell her

I (f28) have been friends with my best friend (f27) since we were 12, but in the last couple years (like since our early/mid twenties) I kinda get the vibe that she’s into me…but we both have never been with a girl, so I feel like there’s no way of knowing?! Women are so comfortable with each other naturally, so I can’t really tell what flirting would feel like…we already cuddle and hold hands lol. I don’t know if I’m reading into it too much. SOS! Can I make the first move without freaking her out? And how would I do that? 

xo,

Never Been Scissored

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By: 71024929_1834130363399312_1196454104742211479_n-93x93honestyiskey123
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Is it wrong to have sex with more than 1 person in a day?

I am casually dating somebody and we’re sexually active (a couple times a week at most). We have not had any conversations about exclusivity, and I know for a fact she’s dating other people. I hung out with a bunch of people at a darty the other day, and fully vibed with a girl there. We were drunk, and ended up going to the nearest bathroom to have sex.

That night, I had plans with the other girl I am casually dating. We were on the couch watching a movie, and she made a move on me. I proceeded to go along with it, and we ended up having sex. Was this wrong of me? Should I have stopped it from happening since I already had sex with somebody else that day? Should I have told her first to give her an option?

I really don’t know if what I did was wrong, or if it was no big deal and I’m just in my head about it. Can this happen again?? Advice please!! <3

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By: 1684450737-61Slippylover
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I don’t feel comfortable talking to my friends about sex – so asking here!

I’ve been trying to be more open about talking with them about my sex lif e(which isn’t very active) especially when they’re talking about it but I get embarrassed and shy to chime in. I think its because they’re more experienced than me. I know they wouldn’t care at all about that and I’m just being in my head. Until I’m ready to talk to them, my question is…

When you haven’t sex in 2 yrs — how do you get yourself to feel comfortable having sex again? HELP!!

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By: valhearts-93x93sunnydayz
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How do I tell my parents I’m dating a woman?

I’ve been lying to my parents for the last 6 months about my relationship, making them think HIS name is Steve, when HER name is actually Stephanie. My parents (especially my dad) are extremely conservative and I can’t imagine how they’ll respond. My biggest fear is losing their support, emotionally, but above all, financially. I don’t live at home any longer and my job doesn’t pay enough for me to cover my rent. I really love my life, I love my girlfriend, and I love being physicaly independent from my parents. But what if they threaten me? What if they will no longer support me if they find out the truth? I am so done living a lie, but I can’t even fathom the consequences I will have to face if I told them.

Any advice would be so helpful. I’m at a loss, and feel defeated. 🙁

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